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TIP #1 Why Kids Need To Know About Sexual Abuse
Meghan Backofen
TIP #2 Who Sexually Offends
Meghan Backofen
TIP #3 Understanding the Grooming Process
Meghan Backofen
TIP #4 Secrets Are Not Safe
Meghan Backofen
TIP #5 Who_s the Boss of This Body
Meghan Backofen

PODCAST

As a therapist who has specialized in treating child sexual abuse for twenty years, I have crossed paths with thousands of children and families that have been involved with Child Welfare and passed through our local children’s advocacy center.   They have been tremendous teachers.  I am so grateful that they have been willing and able to share their stories and help me gain expertise in understanding the context in which sexual abuse occurs. Their experiences have helped me to develop practical prevention strategies for caregivers, and professionals who work with children. 

Since child sexual abuse is often an overwhelming topic for parents, I have tried to make the information more tolerable by simplifying it into 10 Tips for Sexual Abuse Prevention.  I started teaching 10 Tips in 2011 and have shared this course throughout Colorado.  It is now available in a podcast, with links below.  This information will help caregivers to feel empowered.  They will learn specific strategies for how to talk with children about this difficult topic and how to respond if sexual abuse is suspected.   These tips identify misinformation caregivers have that put children at greater risk for sexual abuse trauma. In completing the class parents will feel confident giving children specific messages to make them a "least likely" victim

TIP #6 Make Chile Sexual Abuse Prevention Part of Your Everyday Life
Meghan Backofen
TIP #7 Know the SIgns of Child Sexual Abuse
Meghan Backofen
TIP #8 Know How to Respond
Meghan Backofen
TIP #9 Know the Risk and Protective Factors
Meghan Backofen
TIP #10 Raising Resilient Kids
Meghan Backofen

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“The language is comfortable and not too specific or scary.”

— Marty Sawyer

A critical and candid conversation between a parent and child about body safety.
— Kelley Hill

BOOKS

Child sexual abuse occurs at alarming rates, yet many people find it challenging to discuss the topic with their children. Often parents and caregivers are afraid of scaring their child or introducing sex at a young age. The conversation is avoided and as a result, most childhood sexual abuse victims do not disclose their abuse in childhood. This book is an effort to make it easier for caregivers and children to talk about sexual abuse without scaring children, or prematurely giving them information on sex. It describes the “uh oh” feeling that causes children to freeze and normalizes this response, rather than shaming a child for not yelling and running away if abuse has happened. It also helps children and their parents to really understand what it means to be the Boss of Your Own Body and that Secrets Are Not Safe.

any adult who loves children will find this book to be a beneficial tool to begin ongoing necessary discussions with children about body safety.
— Christie Sommes